As
part of our continuing Monday series on safety in São Paulo, Born Again Brazilian and Brazil in My Eyes take a look at school safety.
School
Security
Probably
one of the number one worries for those of us with children of school age is
how safe they are at any moment out of our personal care. Fortunately many of us have our children in
excellent private schools that take care of not only the mental well-being of
our kids, but also the physical security.
There
are some ways you can make your kids safer in the moments when you are not with
them, or when you are passing them off to or getting them from the school.
Drop
Off/Pick-Up
If
your school has a “drive-through” entrance to the school, be a responsible
parent and move along quickly. Don’t get out of your car; let security guards
help.
If
you park your car to take your kids into school, try to do so on a busier
street. Be alert. The moment of putting your kids into or taking your kids out
of the car is a very vulnerable one. Also remember that São Paulo drivers do
not necessarily obey crosswalk laws, or give you space to get your kids in the
car.
If
you have a private driver, register them with your school: documents and photo.
If your school does not have a procedure for this, you should insist on it. If
you have a taxi driver pick up your kid, try to use the same one every time and
also register him/her with the school.
If
your kids are over the age of 5, make sure to work out with them a password.
For instance, a new person picks them up somewhere. Your child should challenge
that person with a challenge question…what’s the name of my first dog, or
something that only a trusted person would know. Of course most of us do not
have unknown (to our kids) people picking up our kids. But it’s good to be
prepared.
Let’s
also mention that it really doesn’t help anything to scare small kids about
security. My kids recently asked about why we travel in a bulletproof car. And
I explained to them that the issue was not bullets; it was preventing someone
from smashing a window and taking mommy’s purse. They don’t need more than
that. And I will say that the Portuguese for “bulletproof” is much better—it is
“blindado”. Blindado means “protected”—nothing more, nothing less. That is all
kids need to know: that they are being protected.
Outside
of School
For
those of you with kids who are a little older and have entered the moment of
electronic gadgets and smartphones, your challenge is teaching them the
appropriate times to use them. Outside the school, walking to the taxi stand,
or hanging around with friends on a street corner are not the times to show
your $1500 iPhone, iPad Mini, etc. To a robber, this is waving candy in front
of his face. If your kid must have these gadgets, tell him or her to put them
out of sight once they are out of school. Consider having a smaller “dumber”
cell phone for use by your kids.
I
will never forget the look on the face of the captain of the local military
police at a Conseg (neighborhood security) meeting while a mom from one of the
local private schools complained that her son was robbed of his iPad. This is a
public service employee in Brazil—he may or may not have funds to get one for
his own kid. The captain said “do me a favor, Senhora, tell the kids to put the
electronics away. They are making my job harder.” Yes, the police have their
work keeping the streets safe and we, as parents, have our job of keeping our
kids cognizant of their actions.
Street
smarts with school kids
Try
not to visit malls and other public places (metro or streets) with your kids in
their school uniforms. Bring a change of shirt for them to wear if you must go
somewhere right after school. You risk becoming a target. If your kid wears
nice trousers and emblemmed shirts to school, you are probably paying a lot of
money to put them there. Who do you think the bad guy will follow? You.
Online
security
Based
on military police advice, we recommend not posting photos of children in their
school uniforms as your profile or cover photos in facebook. Profile and cover
photos are completely public domain. Do a search on an acquaintance on facebook—note
that no matter what they have hidden behind a privacy “wall”, the cover photo
and profile photo are for anyone to see. Yes, if you google yourself, you’ll
also see photos of yourself, but probably not your kids.
We
suggest not using “locator” features unless the event has already happened and
you are no longer there. In general, post only about events that have happened,
not about what will happen. Also, don’t tag other people’s children in photos.
They may not want you to. Or ask first. In general, don’t post photos of other
people’s children unless you have permission.
For more information on online privacy and security, you may want to check this Huffington Post article.
School Area
Law:
In 2007,
under then-mayor Gilberto Kassab, a law was enacted that established a “School
Area” around every school, measuring 100 meters in radius. You can read more
about this law (if you understand legalese and Portuguese legalese at that) but
know that it encompasses many items including regulating where pornography and
liquor stores can be in this proximity, traffic, graffiti, and most interesting
to us: prevention of crime.
So, how to
put this into action. Thanks to a very handy manual,
again in Portuguese, that was the initiative of the local representative (you
can see his photo on the back), you can put together an evaluation of your
school’s security, a plan of action, and involve the important stakeholders in
this law (parents, teachers, local police force, traffic cops, etc). This is a
long-term approach but an important one. If you don’t have a security committee
for your school, think about making one.
Many
neighborhoods, in conjunction with parents of local schoolchildren, are putting
together groups on facebook and email to share security information and put
pressure on local authorities to better police school areas. A recent rash of
robberies in the Pinheiros neighborhood put the neighborhood on alert—and
through quick-thinking residents, at least one of the criminals has been caught
by the police. Consider attending your local Conseg
meeting to find out what is happening near you.
Summary
If you have
concerns about security within the walls and in the immediate vicinity of your
school, bring it up at the next PTA meeting or get in contact with the head of
your school. Don’t count on someone else to do it; get involved.
In regards
to security outside of school, remember that public spaces are exactly that.
They should be available to everyone, regardless of age, race, etc. Putting
schools in bubbles is not the answer: making safer streets for everyone is. It
is a critical step in our kids good citizens as well. Find your neighborhood
associations (Alto de Pinheiros and Morumbi have particularly strong security
associations) and get involved. Go to the local security meetings (Conseg).
Know your local police captain.
Robert
Frost’s poem Mending Wall says “Good fences make good neighbors.” To reverse
Robert Frost’s thoughts: “Good neighbors make good fences.” We are all more
secure if we are a community rather than a collection of individuals.
Next week,
we’ll take a look at how to improve your house or apartment security. Have a
great week!
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